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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> One of the things that shocked me about motherhood is that I am never off the clock. Its eternal. Seriously. Most things end but not mothering. School lets out for the summer and everyday at a certain time. A job has certain hours plus vacation days. But not being a mother. There is no time clock. There is no vacation. There is no stopping point. Ever. </span><br />
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After much frustration, I have learned I can't compartmentalize my mothering. I literally would say "I am off the clock. Its past 8:00 pm and I am not responding." This didn't really work. First of all because Scotty said it was ridiculous and second of all because my girls didn't stop needing me at bedtime. <br />
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So if you can't beat them, join them. That means that I am in it for life. I have decided that these little people are my new best friends and I will love them 24 hrs. a day. (Don't worry, I don't mean I won't lead them and fall into some crazy philosophy that children need us to be friends instead of parents.)When I became a parent I became a mother for LIFE. Plus, now that I have accepted the children as a part of life, I have much more joy enjoying them. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia";">Even though I am very "pro-motherhood" and "pro-be-with-children-more", I also have a plan to maintain some time alone (but no, that picture above isn't me reading...I didn't want to spend my precious alone time making a selfie of me reading. Ha!)<br />
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1. I get up before the children do so I can get a good attitude, eat, get dressed, read my Bible, stretch, go to the bathroom (a luxury once they are awake), and write out the schedule on the marker board. If I have a newborn then this plan is out the window and I let other things go in life so I can make it through the first three months. <br />
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2. No one is allowed to get up before 8:00 unless they are capable of not talking, needing anything, and staying out of the way and it better be for a good reason. That is, of course, after I greet them lovingly (which isn't easy but this post may help...</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia";"><a href="http://realifecasey.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-first-five-minutes.html">http://realifecasey.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-first-five-minutes.html</a>). </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia";"> Otherwise, when they get up before 8 I greet them and send them back to bed to read or play quietly until I come get them. For the toddler that gets up at 7:00, I change a diaper and give a drink while they stay in their bed and it buys me about 20 min. Then, I go in and turn on the light and turn off the noise maker and give books and toys, that buys me another 20 min, and then I send an older sibling in to play for with them which buys me the last 20 min of time until 8:00. It isn't perfect but it works most of the time.<br />
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3. Everyone takes an hour break in the middle of the day. It doesn't matter if you are 10 yrs old, we are all taking a break. Everyone goes to their own bed or if I am gracious some can rest in the living room with no talking. If you are 4 and under you must sleep. If you are 5 and older and can make it through the day without meltdowns then you can just have quiet time. Books, drawing pads (no markers or crayons), magnet boards, puzzles etc are allowed.<br />
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4. Everyone goes with Daddy at 8:00 pm. Scotty takes over after I do after baths/showers/teeth for the girls. This allows me time alone until we get our couples time at 9:30 and he can bond with the children. There are exceptions like when he travels or has a message to write or is in a pastoring crisis but overall this is what we do. <br />
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5. Date nights, nights at grandparents, and getaways are on our calendar. </span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia";">(See post Staying Connected at </span></span><br />
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These are all the ways I keep my mind and emotions from being overwhelmed and not having time alone. This is crucial especially for those that home school or have multiple little ones. Since you are in this mothering journey for LIFE, you must have a plan to stay fresh so you can be the best mama you can be. <br />
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P.S. We also have a rule of no needing me while I use the restroom unless its an emergency (vomit, blood, danger) and no note-passing under bathroom door asking questions either (believe it or not this is a hard one to break for my girls). </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia";"> And if you only have small children then you may just need to plan your potty break around their naps or video time or just take the baby with you in there...they won't remember it. But I don't recommend you going to the bathroom while they are eating in the kitchen because seems like every time I do this someone ironically starts choking or it is so silent I think someone is choking the whole time I am away which leads to being tense while I am away and we all know that's not healthy.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia";"> Yeah, being a mother takes some major planning even for the bathroom sometimes!</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5214921168353104579.post-39333269172073186292019-05-02T17:16:00.000-07:002019-06-19T18:54:09.630-07:003 Ways to Speak So Your Child Will Listen<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As we exited the local resale shop, my hands were full with packages and my preschool age daughter was near my side. There were several cars in the parking lot so I routinely instructed her. “Stay by mama. Let me help you get in the car.” But she didn’t listen. She playfully dashed ahead, completely unaware that the car next to mine was pulling out. Immediately I yelled out, “Wait! Stop!” Sadly, she kept going. I dropped my bags and rushed out to grab her by the arm. Miraculously, the moving car missed hitting her by an inch. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It has been several years since the day my daughter was almost hit in the parking lot. But I can still relive the entire scene without hesitation. In fact, I have had several dreams at night reliving that day. Although it scared me deeply that she was so close to being severely hurt, what concerned me more is that it almost happened because she didn’t listen to me. Why didn’t my child respond when I spoke? <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our children, little ones to teenagers, must learn the art of listening to us but even more so, we must learn the art of speaking to them. Over time, I have learned more about how to effectively communicate to my children. Here are my top three ways to speak so your children will listen. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1. With Earned Respect.</i></b> Essentially, your position as a parent automatically places you in authority. However, your leadership in their lives is backed up by how much they respect you. Do your children respect you? When you speak, do they take note or blow you off? Do your words carry weight? Obviously, for me on that day with that child, mine did not. My child did not respect me, take note, or think my words carried weight. She did not hear me and respond accordingly. Yes, she needed to learn to listen but had I led her in such a way that my voice alone would cause her to inwardly respect what I said whether she wanted to or not. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The child will learn to honor your authority and place of honor at home before the crisis. Teach them on the front end before you are out and about. Talk to them about your love for them and that you will only ask of them what is best for them. Talk to them about how God placed you as the parent so you can lead them. They absolutely must trust you and trust that you are accountable to God. Once a child knows you aren’t controlling or frivolous, they will have the correct perspective to respect you no matter what you ask of them. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In the event that they hear you but don’t honor what you asked of them, there should be loving yet firm consequences. This will help them learn you say what you mean and you mean what you say. You will not have to be an overbearing dictator that demands respect. Respect is earned as you teach them why you do what you do. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2. With Appropriate Timing. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></i></b>Most all of us are familiar with being lectured for long periods of time from a parent, teacher, or coach. Interestingly, for me, the longer the person went, the less I would listen. At some point, it was just too long to stay focused or to process my emotions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When you talk to your children, consider how long you are going. Even the scriptures tell us in Proverbs 10:19 "When words are many, sin is not absent. But he who holds his tongue is wise." Take some time to listen to your child first and ask that they listen to you. And then, keep it to the point. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Additionally, think through the timing of when you talk. Did they just wake up? Is it in front of their friends? Are they already stressed over something else? Are they hungry? Just this week I watched another daughter of mine make poor choices in her class with our school group. Everything in me wanted to address it in the moment but because she is not a small child, I waited. After school ended and she was home settled after a snack, we talked. It went well because it was the right timing. She listened and she learned. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3. With the Correct Tone. </i></b>There are some moms that talk to their children as if they are children themselves. They speak with relaxed, breathy, hesitant tones as if they are pleading with the children in hopes they will obey. And if they don’t, the mom shakes her head and explains to those around her, “Boys will be boys!” or “She is just so independent!” All the while it was the mother who not only lacked authority but also the correct tone in which she spoke to them. It's no wonder the children don’t listen, she is communicating in weakness. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then there are the military mothers. These moms bark orders all day long. Their tone is firm and loud. They said it and they mean it or else! Everything from loading up in the car to answering a math question to picking up their clothes is communicated in a drill sergeant voice (or at the very least a one-angry-mama style). These moms do have obedient children but they also have stressed children that may inwardly be rebelling or are left feeling defeated. The mother’s tone undermines the more serious times that a child needs to listen because she is always “on their case” or “worked up” so they learn to tune her out. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>How you communicate in your tone to your children speaks volumes. Kindness and gentleness can be heard in the tone as you are respected with full authority. There is a balance much like what we know from how Jesus spoke. He was calm but heard. He spoke and they listened. Jesus wasn’t apologetic or weak and He was angered in only the most extreme moments. Speak like Jesus would speak. They will listen. Additionally, when your tone is steady the children will know if it changes and will respond accordingly. Specifically, if you are sad or hurt over their choices, your tone can reflect it. If you are louder and firm because of a major disobedience, they will take note. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As our children learn the skills of listening, we can learn the skill of speaking. I will never forget that day in the parking lot when my little one was an inch away from injury, and I will never forget the importance of leading my children in how I speak. When we speak from a place of respected leadership, control the length of our talk said at the right time, and when our speech is verbalized with the correct tone, we are leading our children in such a way that they will listen. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">(The picture I shared is me with Allison as we chatted in the car recently. She was the little one that bolted into the parking lot years ago! We are still enjoying meaningful conversations on all kinds of topics since that day.) </span></i></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5214921168353104579.post-8783194571805507802019-04-30T17:46:00.000-07:002019-06-19T18:58:11.358-07:00Goals for Ages 3-5 yrs old.<span lang=""></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">When we had the first four children in four years, my mind was always racing to remember which child needed to learn what thing. It was mindboggling to keep track only to realize one had not learned something they should have by a certain point. With all the training and teaching going on, I was just happy they were fed and clean by the end of most days. But there is more that needs to be learned in those first five years.<span style="font-size: medium;"></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: medium;"> <br /><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> So as some of you have asked, we are sharing the list of important things we wanted our girls to know and do between the ages of 3-5. This list allowed me to keep track of where each girl was and who needed to learn other things. </span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span></span> <span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> <i>They are divided into <b>5 Categories</b> that we implement every day for some through guided life learning and other days when we do "school time" which is approximately 3-4 days a week. </i></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i><br /></i></span></span></span> <span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i> All these goals can be taught through basic simple teaching, games, books, DVDs, car rides, Cds, and lots of talking. Plus, depending on when you start kindergarten, you have two to three years to teach it all so that takes the stress off of cramming it in their little heads in a year. </i></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"><br /><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span style="font-size: large;"><em> </em>On that note<em>, </em>consider starting kindergarten as close to age 6 as possible. I say this for a couple of crucial reasons. First, when they enter kindergarten closer to age 6 they have had more time to develop emotionally, physically, and spiritually. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> When they are on the "older side" of kids in the class they can have the experience of leadership to the classmates because they are ahead. Just think of the joy of being one of the first kindergarten kids to lose a tooth, or to be a fifth grader with cool braces, a junior high sports boy with a year ahead in height and strength, a mature freshman girl that is out of the awkward stage, or being one of the first friends to drive and have a job. In addition, their hearts have had time to grow in the Lord and they are able to make solid decisions with wisdom and knowledge that time gives. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Secondly, when you start later, the child is home longer on the back end of high school before leaving for work, college, or marriage. A year can make a difference when entering the adult world. And by those years we want every second we can get with our kids before they are grown and gone! </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Although a child may be ready for kindergarten schoolwork that doesn't mean you have to send them. Go ahead and have them do some older work at home but consider waiting to place them in kindergarten at church class or school class until closer to age 6. This is a precious time to bond and enjoy a stage with your child as much as possible. Honestly, I would rather have my toddlers go to preschool a few times a week than my 5-6-year-olds leave. They are easier and so much fun to do everyday life with by the time they are out of the "I walk around and get into stuff in dangerous ways" stage!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: large;"> And if you have already started your little one and this info is too late, perhaps the Lord will lead you to make the courageous decision to hold your child back a year to repeat or to just take a year off. My mom had to make this choice with my brother when he was in the second grade. He turned 7 in September and started second grade but she felt it was best to hold him back. He thrived socially and academically far better than the year before which kept on through his high school years.</span><span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: large;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"> Just something to think about but God will lead you for what your child needs and it may be different.</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia";"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "georgia";"> <span style="font-size: large;"> So, back to some ideas to follow as you guide your 3-5-year-olds. Here is what we have researched and used in our children: </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> </span> <b><br /><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> 1. God - </span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">His love for us, He does good, and He is good. You can learn these through </span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Bible stories (read from Story Bible book, or use the <i>Dan and Louie Bible Stories </i>Cds), prayer (for anything, anytime, anywhere) and scripture memory. (Steve Green's <i>Hide 'Em in My Heart</i> Cds or otherwise)<br />
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<b>2. Others</b> - Receiving love, showing love, manners such as personal hygiene, phone skills, doorbell responses, key phrases (thank you, bless you, you're welcome, please), how to behave in quiet settings (such as weddings, meetings, church). <br />
</span><b><br /><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> 3. Play - </span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Lots of open imagination time, some directed time, playing with others<br />
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</span><b><br /><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> 4. Work - </span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Why we work (to carry out God's purposes on earth) and how we work (with excellence unto the Lord). Daily chores such as a kitchen job, cleaning their rooms, and one other house job that is age appropriate. These are without pay so they know its part of living in the home and being an important member of the family. If someone needs to earn some money then we assign above and beyond jobs that are harder and not typical.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> <b></b><b>5. Education - </b></span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Safety Skills (calling 911, what to do when lost, water safety, strangers), 7 Keys to Health (Water, Rest, Exercise, Vitamins, Healthy food, Massage, and Clean Hands away from the face), Personal Information (names of family members, phone numbers, address), Colors, Shapes, Letters Counting to 100, Parts of the Body, Handwriting (letter formation, name, upper and lower case, keeping it in a straight line, and spacing), Calendars (days, months, seasons), Workbook Pages (fun books from local store with some cognitive work pages).<br />
<br /> This is a list to plan for and give guidance but don't stress when it's not all done perfectly. If you do a bit by bit over the 3,4,5 years it will all come together! I hope that this list is a help to you as you lead your little ones in the way and timing the Lord tells you is best for your family!</span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><br /></span></span></span> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">For more blog posts, go to the home page at <a href="http://www.realifecasey.blogspot.com/">www.realifecasey.blogspot.com</a></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5214921168353104579.post-7696923549130874862019-03-22T16:32:00.000-07:002019-06-19T19:01:37.653-07:00Communicating Our Healthy Choices <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Have you ever felt like teaching your children how to handle healthy food choices can be difficult? For us, we had to learn the hard way! Just because our girls were eating healthy didn't mean they had healthy communication to others about it...<br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Stop! Don’t eat
that!” warned my 4 year old Allison. Our family friend paused with the pizza
right at his lips. “It has pepperoni which is a brain killer!” We all laughed
and moved on with the night. Then another day arose when my dad offered my
children some candy. “No thanks, they contain high fructose corn syrup.” We
didn’t laugh as much on this one but there was more of a silent pause in the
family as everyone thought about it. And then the awkward moment arrived at a
family party when the cake was being handed out and one of my girls asked
loudly, “Does this icing have dyes in it?! I can’t eat dyes!” This health thing
wasn’t helping our relationships with those we loved. We needed to have a
family talk. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our healthy
lifestyle was obvious to those around us but it wasn’t being communicated with
ease. Furthermore, I knew our kids felt the tension as they would strive to
obey only to have others roll their eyes, to sit at events with nothing to
share in the social world, or to feel rude to those who tried to share a treat
with them. So we had to decide to give up on being healthy and let the kids do
whatever they wanted, or we needed some basic understandings that put everyone
at ease. We decided to stay healthy and do what is fitting for all. </span></div>
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play how to appropriately handle your family’s health decisions without making
others feel inferior.</span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> We spent a few talks on this because it took
time for the children to understand health manners. We determined we would ask
questions about the food privately to one adult rather than announce it to the
whole table. We would not tell other people what and how to eat nor make a
scene on what our family has decided to eat. We would be sensitive to the giver
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Decide
what truly is not allowed.</span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> If the lines are gray it can be difficult
for the child to know when to say no and when to say yes. For us, we choose to
avoid MSG, high fructose corn syrup, and dyes completely. These are three
things the children don’t even have to ask about when deciding. And yes, that
means most candy. But don’t feel too sorry for the kids. We can still do select
cookies, cupcakes, chocolates, popsicles and frozen yogurt but something such
as candy is just always a “nope.” This will cut out the pleas and sad faces of
“can I mom?!” in moments when it’s hard. My kids just know, don’t even ask! In
addition, we decided we would only do one treat a day (or none!) but would
allow for two treats at parties and holidays. If they want more they can save
something for the next day. This causes them to be aware and carefully select
their items.</span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Teach
the children the reason behind eating healthy so they understand it is to help
them.</span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> My younger kids are still learning this but my older three
ages 8, 10, and 11 are at a place they don’t want the junk because they
understand what it does and what it can lead to in life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Their taste buds have adapted and if they do
eat unhealthy they don’t feel well and know why. This has helped them make
their own wise choices when we aren’t there to guide. Once a child has their
own convictions it takes quite the burden off of the parents because they trust
the child knows and will do what is right. </span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Keep
healthy treats readily available as an option.</span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> This
has worked wonders in our family. We take a trip to the local health food store
and let the children pick out several fun and tasty treats! It may even include
the “candy” stuff just without the dyes and high fructose. These items are
something they really like and when school, church, friends or extra activities
offers treats there is a back-up plan to be able the moment. I have items in
the car, in my purse, in the pantry at home, and in their backpacks ready for
any switch off!</span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Be
consistent in the decisions but not obsessive.</span></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> “Mom,
at the sleepover there was a game that used Skittles that we had to catch in
our mouths and if I didn’t play then we wouldn’t have had equal players so I
decided to go ahead and do the game but I wondered if I made the right
decision?!” In this situation, we let it go and assured our daughter that we
were proud she was aware and that it isn’t a habit she gives in to often but
that we understood the predicament. There are times something will come up and
you may have to let it go. Just look at the overall pattern of the decisions
made and whether or not there is a direction of consistency. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, we have come
a long way since our kids would correct others in what they were eating or
announce to parties what wasn’t allowed. This generation most likely knows more
about health than what my friends and I were aware of growing up but I want it
to be communicated and understood in wholesome expression for all involved. Although,
I will say having my four year old yell out “brain killer” to people who eat pepperoni
is a favorite memory! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">In a local store, my little girl saw gory Halloween decor and said, "I don't like this place. Look at all the mean things." The checkout employee heard her and replied, "Oh, honey, its not real. It's just pretend." I could tell by the face she made to the clerk that my little girl wasn't buying it. So I answered my daughter and said, "The lady working is right, <i>those</i> actual items are not<i> real </i>but they DO represent things that are<i> real</i>." I could tell the clerk thought <i>I</i> wasn't for real.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Our family is all about the fall. We enjoy the cooler air, indulge in comfort foods, decorate with autumn colors, and participate in seasonal parties. But there is a darker side to this month that is a concern to me. Why are we rejoicing over blood, fear, knives, pain, chains, screams, death, terror, missing limbs and broken bones? Those are the very things that none (or, should I say, most of us) want to avoid in life. And yet, there is much effort and publicity to make it something we should all celebrate as if it's pretend. But I know from personal experience, those things are real and none of them seem like a fall festival. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">BLOOD reminds me of the day my dad saved a man's life with his own neck tie in his workplace when a bomb went off from a box received in shipping.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">FEAR reminds me of the night of the tornado that hit Joplin, MO where children and families are still in counseling over for post-tramatic stress syndrome </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">KNIVES remind me of the innocent landlord that was stabbed nearby after reaching out to help the family in need.</span><br />
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<span lang="EN"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">PAIN reminds me of what my grandmother felt when dying in her last horrific stages of ovarian cancer </span><br />
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</span></span><span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">CHAINS remind me of a college-aged <span lang="EN">girl I know that miraculously escaped the American sex trade in which she was literally chained in a warehouse for over 4 years</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">SCREAMS remind me of a very young local foster girl I know that reported screaming from the pain she felt when being sexually abused. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">DEATH reminds me of all the thousands of precious people who tragically lost their lives on 9-11 </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">TERROR reminds me of how our troops, including my cousin, who have fought and are fighting in horrific circumstances to end the terrorist groups </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">MISSING LIMBS reminds me of the children I saw on a recent trip to Haiti in which street children have been tortured to the point of brutal loss in order to make them work as slaves</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">BONES remind me of when my husband and I visited a Holocost museum and saw pictures and video footage of piles of mutilated people's bones </span><br />
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When it comes to much of what is advertised and celebrated in October, we can call it merchandise, entertainment, a tradition, or a holiday, but at the very least we need to call it what it is, REAL. Some of these items and events glorify harsh realities that are not worth celebrating. So what will I do with my daughter this month? We will break out the jackets, cider, decor, and costume parties and we will have a killer...I mean, a life-giving harvest season!<br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">It’s here! Summer celebrations are well under way! Sunshine,
vacations, camps, swimming, and family memories have taken the place of school
and extra-curricular activities. This time of the year is a unique time of
having fun and having free-time for a child. But did you know this can also be
a time to make progress in some unique and valuable areas of your child’s life?
The weeks of summer can be an ideal for investing in the minds and hearts of
your children in ways that the rest of the year may not allow. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>It seems
for our family, there isn’t time to do some of the meaningful things we want to
do throughout the year that I know my children need. So, I decided we would use
the summer to do some things the rest of the year doesn’t allow for due to
time. In addition, children are more open to doing things together in summer as
there aren’t as many distractions from outside obligations and school needs
that crowd their minds.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">As you plan out the next 10 weeks or
so of your child’s break, consider utilizing time during each day or at least a
few times a week to do things that build the child internally. Move into a
purpose-driven mindset that makes the best of the extra hours available. These
days are gifts to parents as the children are looking for places and people to
put their time and energy. This is a unique window of opportunity to guide them
in fun yet productive activities. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Plus, a bonus is that is can also help
alleviate summer-time boredom that can lend itself to whiny, lazy, fussy kids
that can get into mischief. (Not <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">your</i>
kids, of course, but perhaps some kids you know?!)</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>There
may only be one or two things you will want to choose but if you do that over
the years of summer time, by the age the kids leave home you would have accomplished
much! The point is to choose things that make the most of the time given. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Choose one <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">book</i></b> to read aloud and discuss what
can be learned from it. Or have the children read on their own and tell you
about it over dinner or during a car ride. The important thing is to choose a
book that instills values or principles that benefit the child. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Plant a <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">garden.</i></b> Even wildflowers can be fun
to grow if other flowers or food seems like too much to handle. A garden can
teach the value of living things, patience, nurture, and the celebration of
growth from something small to full maturity. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Take a morning or evening <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">walk</i></b>. Listen to nature,
stop and take note of neighbors you haven’t had time to interact with, or just
chat casually as things come up. For those with little ones, use the stroller
so you aren’t in work-mode as you chase tiny tricycles or carry toddlers. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Learn a <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">foreign language</i></b>. Since there aren’t
other subjects filling their minds or calling for homework, a new language or
adding to one each summer can be fun for kids, especially if you use the right
program or app. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Write letters</i></b> to relatives or
distant friends. Perhaps there are grandparents or great-aunts and uncles, or
former school friends and neighbors that don’t get time to see your child that
would enjoy a handwritten, personalized card in the mail. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Volunteer</i></b> at a local organization
that could use some help or encouragement. This could be as simple as asking
your church, community center or foster care organization if they need any<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>help with a one-time project or as committed
as having your teen assist weekly with a family of many children just to give
the mom a breather without having to pay.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Teach <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">homemaking</i></b>. Most kids know how to
unload a dish washer or sweep a floor, but what about teaching (or perhaps
learning together) how to build a shelf, organize a garage, change the oil,
balance a checkbook, paint a room, sew a button, cook a new meal, or prepare
for a yard sale ect. Most likely as parents we would do these on our own but
kids and teens would enjoy learning these type things and will be able to use
the skills later in life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Nurture</i></b> a new pet. Having a pet can
be enjoyable to watch as well as teach responsibility. It could be as easy as a
fish (our personal favorite) or as engaging as a new puppy. The summer allows
for time to learn how to handle the new addition and set some habits of care
into place before school starts back. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Invest in others. </i></b>All around us
there are people who are in need of a caring relationship. Whether it’s a sick
neighbor, an elderly person at the nursing home, a special-needs child from
school, a family that just moved to town, a young mom with a new baby, or a
foster teenager that is aging out of the system, taking time to call, enjoy a
meal, give a gift, run errands or take somewhere can be just the encouragement
they need. Summer is a wonderful season for relationships. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Build Character. </i></b>The relaxed times
of summer can lead to some of the greatest conversations about decision-making,
friends, media, life direction, sibling love, peer pressure ect. There may even
be some personal goals such as boundaries with food, being mature in proper
settings, talking with an “inside voice”, building self-esteem or other skills
that your child needs to learn but there hasn’t been the opportunity. These
weeks are ideal for readjusting behaviors and teaching your insights for life
character traits. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Enjoy these days! Even if you have to forget every idea listed above and just have no agenda or maybe have a chaotic crazy summer, take in those extra mama moments! Make some
lemonade and embrace these few weeks doing whatever it is you want to do while you have some extra moments to invest in their hearts and
minds!</span></div>
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<span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">It's intriguing to me how dirty clothes can have such control over my life. As the laundry needs build, the piles have a looming, creepy voice that calls out in eery tones..."wash me...dry me...fold me...put me in the closet..." over and over in my head! The voices are enough to drive a girl crazy! So here are some logistics I have learned that silences the call of laundry:</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b>1. Certain loads go on certain days. </b><i>Choose which family member gets which day. This can depend on who they are and what their needs. </i>For example, I don't mind doing baby laundry because the clothes are easier, a smaller load, and sooooo cute. Therefore, the baby load is done on Saturday when we might be out more. I do my older two girls laundry (at times they do their own from start to finish but not always...yet) on Wednesday because that is a day that they can put it all away for their afternoon work before a busy church night. This relieves me from doing it. Friday is our family day off so towels and sheets go then because they are easy to put away and the girls can fold them with me as the day is more relaxed. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Having a system gives me a the freedom to not think about what is waiting on me. If it isn't the day for that load, then it can wait. Even if it is falling out on the floor overflowing from the bin, it can wait. The only exception to this is if someone truly needs an item or two before their day then I may be a merciful mother and allow them to throw it in with another load. But it better be truly needed! ha. Below is my write up for what we do: </span><br />
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One of the key questions from people who are leading while raising a family is how to balance it all. Here are some thoughts from my heart on how the Lord has allowed us to function with fun and grace!<br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Now then. How are you? Still second guessing yourself? Wondering how all this works? Think God picked the wrong family? In all seriousness, it's okay. I believe those who have gone before you have been there. I am in my 8th year of homeschooling and I feel this way every year we start. Even more so, sometimes I feel this in the middle of the year. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't do it. That doesn't mean I should give up. And you shouldn't either. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> My first year I was a professional researcher spending most of my time meeting with ladies and asking questions but it did end up helping . My second year I revamped all I had tried the first year and felt better. My third year I realized a person doesn't need to buy a lot of extra bells and whistles to teach, so that saved money. My fourth year I accepted that maybe I do need a co-op, which relieved stress. My fifth year I admitted that teaching a true ADHD child was difficult so investing in a tutor didn't mean I was a failure. My sixth year I was clueless on the new English curriculum despite my college degree, so I worked as hard as my 4th grader only to discover we knew what we were doing by the second semester. My seventh year I realized how fast the years are going so I need to stay focused. And now we will begin our new year of school in about a week or two. But Every year gets better! I am loving it because I know there are challenges but God is for me and always, always, always helps me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: large;">In addition, something else we do that is unique but beneficial is that we often (depends on the year and ages) send our girls to 4-6 weeks of public school at the end of the year. This has been worthy of doing for the experience (MAP testing, field trips, outdoor skills day and to see how other children live and learn) personal discipleship (by way of being challenged by the world against their faith), and a change in pace of the flow of how we do life. This also gives me a little vacation and makes them appreciate home education the rest of the year! It truly does show them the pros and cons first hand rather than us always explaining why we do what we do the rest of the year. </span><br />
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English - First Language Lessons for Grammar, Classical Conversations Pre-scripts for cursive, personal choice chapter books for Reading, Spelling lists are gathered from various sources depending on their level of ability. I am still thinking about writing material to use for this grade level as I haven't completely landed on a set one to recommend.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">The excitement I
had for going back to school changed dramatically after elementary. The joys of
a new lunch box, meeting my teacher, discovering how much recess time was
allotted and hoping friends noticed that I had lost a baby tooth were soon
replaced by thoughts in the mind of a blossoming teenager. I looked forward to
the status of being in an older grade, the fun of electives, seeing friends
every day, and showing the world how much I had matured through the summer. But
I also had other no-so-exciting emotions. I wondered if my clothes would be
cool enough, what classes to take for college preparation, how to manage the
endless social dramas, and if I were going to make the JV or Varsity basketball
team. Back to school had certainly changed. </span><br />
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are in the midst of raising a teen, then you know students aren't the only ones
feeling the change. What used to be a fun trip hand-in-hand to Wal-Mart for a pack
of décor pencils has turned into a Mall trip with much discussion of what is or
isn’t allowed. It’s a time of change for the parents as much as the student. So
what are some insights into making the best of school preparation with your teenage
child? </span></span></div>
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</span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">1. Keep It Fun! </b>Teens are still tender at
heart! While they long to be grown, there are parts that are still enjoying
childhood joys.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, create a celebration
of the back to school days! Make a countdown chart in the kitchen, take them
for a fresh haircut, leave a note of funny things you remember from being their
age and/or hopes you have them this year. Some more ideas are to visit the
school before it starts just to say hello to staff for a pre-school connection,
make shopping day fun by planning out what is needed and the best places to
look then enjoy stopping for a treat as you chat about how your child feels
about the year, or have some close friends over for a back to school hang out
time or dinner out. Their tender teen hearts may or may not express how much
all this means but they will enjoy, appreciate, and remember all you have done.
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during those teen years, simplicity is a gift that some teens aren’t sure how
to acquire. Everywhere they go, there are options and decisions for them to be
involved in something. Whether it’s more classes, afterschool clubs, sports,
church activities, community events, friendships, homework, home jobs or even a
workplace job, there is much to be done! If you can help them narrow down their
choices and responsibilities with logical reasoning it will help them not be
overwhelmed. Think through their natural abilities, personal interest (not just
because someone else wants them to do it), weekly schedule, daily schedule, cost,
responsibilities and necessity to do what is offered. As you move through a
time of investigation and discussion, you will both learn what will be the best
for all involved. This will keep things simple which helps the teen and the
whole family. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span></div>
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time to offer more freedom and growth, this is also a critical time to stay
close to their heart. They may or may not seem interested or may not be home as
much but they do still need you! It will take some planning and patience on
your part but keeping them close is a must. As you go into the school year,
have a conversation about your love for them and desire to stay connected. Then
go into the fall with plans for meals as a family, set weeknight or weekend
outings, leave notes of encouragement as well as be willing to stay up for those
late-night chat times, attend their activities, create time to know their
friends, and do whatever it takes to get into their world. In return, having a
close relationship that makes an effort to be together gives more opportunity
to discuss the realities of teen pressures, friend issues, personal struggles,
and deeper emotions. Going into the school year with the support of a parent
that works to stay close gives incredible stability for the developing teen and
endless rewards for you as the parent!</span></span></div>
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different than years before but it can be a meaningful and enjoyable time in
the journey of parenting as your teen goes back to school!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> <em>*Article used as published in Paradise Valley Lifestyle Magazine August 2014 by Casey Gibbons</em></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5214921168353104579.post-26828558294550896182017-05-13T11:30:00.000-07:002017-05-13T05:57:33.919-07:00Do You Ever Feel a Mom's Fight Out?<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> (2014 Repost) </span>It’s 11:40 p.m. I
just came home into a quiet house with everyone asleep. The beautifully dim light
accentuates my favorite aspects of this house. But after ten seconds my mind
went back to reality as I walked from the garage to the bedroom. I had thoughts
race through my mothering mind within a matter of minutes, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“What is that foul smell? Whew. Yuck. It can wait til morning…Did the
kids and Scotty really need all those dishes tonight, especially when I ordered
pizza? Oh, there are my Haiti sponsor letters that I have never mailed. I need
to do that. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And I forgot to get medicine
picked up. Bummer. She is totally out. Well, what’s one day with a kid with no
meds? Wait, I should go first thing and get it. Should I go kiss and check on
all the children? Better not, they may stir and need me. Not worth it. Who’s
underwear is in the middle of the foyer and why? I am hungry, but not sure why
since I had a salad and an entrée then frozen custard. Maybe I should ignore
the hunger.Should I wash my face? I am too tired but I know I need to…and
floss...and shower…and wash my hair…and shave. Ugh. I can’t do all that. So, I
will just get my makeup off then maybe brush my teeth after I go eat some
cereal. I need to read the papers the school sent home. And is tomorrow the
last day for teacher appreciation?! I need to write thank you notes! How am I
going to do that plus pack for our weekend trip and go to Wal-mart and take a
shower…and make my bed…and read my Bible…and parent the kids, and answer
Facebook messages…and bring the trash can in…and take all my vitamins…and clean
the foul smell coming from the mound of dishes…and redo the load of laundry in
the dryer that is now wrinkled and ruined from setting...and put gas in the car
and, of course, exercise then all the other things that come in a day that I
have to leave by 2:00 p.m.? And where did I put my wedding ring when I took it
off? Ugh. Breathe. This is not the time for a panic attack.” </i>This was all
while my fabulous five were sleeping. Imagine what it can be like when they all
wake up, and even more so, when I give birth to my 6<sup>th</sup> one here in a
matter of weeks. Being a mother takes <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">a
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motherhood. I have embraced motherhood. God has miraculously turned this “worst
babysitter ever” that “didn’t like her first child” into a redeemed mama soul
that is thrilled to be obedient in raising the people God has given her. They
are precious and priceless. They are worth every minute of selfless living. It’s
just that all the logistics that come with mothering can sometimes get in the way
of my heart. I have to have a <em>mom’s fight
out mentally and emotionally to feel what I know to be the true core of who
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And I know there
are others like me out there feeling this same way. In fact, tonight, I saw the
new witty comedy Moms’ Night Out movie. It. Was. Awesome. My mom and I sat through
the whole thing either laughing, crying, or saying, “That is sooooo how it is!”
The movie completely revealed the same mental, emotional, and even spiritual
battles that we plunge through on a daily basis in our mom-fight. For me,
seeing a highly-produced movie about moms and their challenges on the big
screen made me want to stand and yell out, “I LOVE THIS! I LIVE THIS!” while
wondering if the person who wrote the script can be my new best friend.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I recommend the movie to anyone who is a
mother or who has a mother because it humorously reveals the deep-rooted concerns
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hard. It’s a fight. And yet, I believe it’s a fight <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">we can win</i> <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">with the Lord’s
help</i>. Feeling <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">overwhelmed?</b> Don’t
rely on your own ability. Stop trying to be strong enough. The house will
always need work. The paper stack will always grow. The children will always
need something. Choose to hand it over to the Lord in your heart and how you
think. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“I can do all things through
Christ who strengthens me.” Phil. 4:13.</i> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Discontent?</b> The grass is just as itchy on the other side. Escaping
will only mask the core issue for a season. Take time to learn what Paul did in
<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Phil. 4:11 “I have learned to be content whatever
the circumstances.” </i>He didn’t have it naturally but learned it. Contentment
will come when we are living in obedience. If we are right with God then we can
rest instead of wondering if we should be somewhere else doing something else.
If He wanted us to make a change, we would know.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Insecure?</b>
We know that Satan loves to lie. He loves to tell us we aren’t good enough and
can’t do what we need to do. Only believe what the Lord says about you. He
says, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“I give strength to the weary and
increase the power of the weak.” Isaiah 40:29. </i>If God made the child then
He will strengthen to parent the child as well. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Guilty?</b> All of us have things we regret as mamas but not forgiving ourselves
and re-playing our mistakes keeps us in bondage. But Christ said, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and
just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” I
John 1:9.</i> Be free! Ask for forgiveness, do what you can to make it right
then move on! If not, then you are saying God’s forgiveness isn’t enough so you
still have to carry it. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Mentally
overloaded?</b> <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“God will keep you in
perfect peace when your mind stays on Him, because you trust Him.” Isaiah 26:3 </i>Relax.
God has the world under control. Take a deep breath. Rest in Him. Whether it is
a sick child, a stray-hearted child, family changes, financial burdens, or marriage
issues, we may have to walk through the hardship, but the Lord gives us peace
as we trust Him to bring us through with His wisdom.</span></span></div>
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the mom-fight is for you, you can win. We win with the power and help of the
Lord. We aren’t alone in this journey! There are millions of us doing all we
can to mother and God will help every single one us. Now, I can let all my
late-night mom’s fight out thoughts go, and just rest in a the fond memories of
the Moms’ Night Out movie. Much love and prayers to all my mothering friends...and go see the movie!</span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: large;"><a href="http://www.momsnightoutmovie.com/">www.momsnightoutmovie.com</a></span><br />
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">It's Spring time but I wanted to share this with so you have time to think and plan if this is something you decide to do this summer! This is an at-home camp for kids from any connections you may have in life. It could be for neighbors, friends, church kids or cousins! You can divide up ages or do everyone together depending on the amount and the ages. And all you Pinterest savvy people can spruce it up even more. We even threw in a bday party during one of the lunch times since we had everyone there anyway. We added cake, did presents and set out a theme on the table then went back into the camp schedule...it saved time and money on the bday party and the bday girl loved it! Make it whatever works for you and have a blast impacting young hearts! Enjoy...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">(2014 re-post) Woo-hoo! We just recently completed our 5th Annual Cousin's Camp! Hard to believe its been going for FIVE YEARS! SO WORTH IT! I gathered
all first cousins who are 4 and older to make some major life-time memories.
From the first-class greetings, to opening ceremonies, games and prizes, mini-group,
and water fun we lived it up for yet another successful year of bonding. </span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 12pt;">Here is a highlight video from this past month at Cousins Camp: </span><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WOSnGRN6fg" style="font-family: georgia, serif; font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman";">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WOSnGRN6fg</span></a><br />
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worth sharing. Perhaps this will offer you some creative ideas to build
relationships with the children in your world whether biological, extended,
adopted, friends, neighbors, little ones you mentor etc. The main reasons we
get together is to make an extra effort beyond birthdays and holidays (those
are so busy) to grow in God, to have both sides of the family making memories,
and for them to know their Aunt Casey loves them! Here is the schedule we use
but adapt for your own interest and needs: </span></div>
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two days and each day goes from 10-3:00. This is just enough time to do
everything and yet not too much when things would get a little crazy.</span></i></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">10:00 WELCOME</span></b><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> Greet outside with lots of
energy and random instruments while cheering their name and making a tunnel. We
do this until all arrive. Then we let the kids choose if they want to get their
face painted which is done by a big kid or one of the helpers. Helpers are
someone like an adult friend, relative, or teen. This year I had three helpers
bc I am pregnant and also had 14 kids at the house…in addition, I decided I
better have two camps next time bc the age gaps between the 4 yr olds and the
10-11 yr olds as well as the amount of kids! But it was fun!</span></div>
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pledge to the American flag, then we circle up for a Cousins Camp Cheer (“We’re
cousins! We’re cousins! We always stick together! I am with you, you are with
me, its Cousins Camp Forever!”) then we put on some dance music and do a dance
together (Electric Slide or something similar that is fun and easy). </span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">10:30 BIBLE CHAT TIME</span></b><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"> There is a theme each year and
we talk about a concept such as trusting the Lord, prayer, living a pure life,
and learning what truth is in life. I lead the lesson and pass a balla round
for each child to hold when it’s their turn to talk. We act out the lesson or
use props to prove the point. It is the most valuable time of the whole camp as
the children share their hearts and insights. Then we close with prayer
requests and I remind them about being wise and choosing God no matter what
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to stuffing panty hose with cotton and drawing faces to make long snakes, this
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fun. We have two teams with equal ages on each if possible so older can help
the younger. These games have included through the years tossing balls into
buckets, throwing popcorn into mouths, playing Pictionary, guessing what items
are missing from a tray or wrapping up in toilet paper races etc. The final
game leads up one big game on day two such as a scavenger hunt for a treasure
box with real coins or an obstacle course. </span></div>
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one of our girls bday celebrations during this part if the camp falls during a
bday. We eat and open presents on Day 1. For Day 2, we do snack then give out
awards for each child with a certificate or medal or trophy to acknowledge
something special about each one. This year, due to rain, we had to move
Freetime and snack to an indoor community swim area so I sent a picture with
awards on it in the mail later. </span></div>
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you to connect with the children in your life before they grow up and go their
own ways. It truly is a gift to have influence and time with the heart of a
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Shortly after one of my girls woke up, she was already verbalizing a negative attitude for the day. So I responded back to her with an attitude. Brilliant, right? I put the mama power on and firmly responded with, "I don't know what your problem is with today, but if you don't cut it out I can start your day with of some form of discipline to help you snap out of it." So she answered back that she didn't have an attitude. Then I answered back that she did and re-enacted it all so she could see it. Then I added, "You have one more chance to start this day off better." Then I went to the kitchen for another few minutes to finish reading my Bible. All it took was for me to <em>see</em> my Bible and I was immediately convicted. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Calmly, I called for my daughter and expressed my apologies. "I am sorry. I was too firm and had a negative attitude myself this morning." Kindly she answered, "It's okay, mom." But I knew we needed to reunite in heart. "No, its really not okay.Will you forgive me?" "Yes, I will." As we hugged she let out a sigh of relief. And so did I.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">1. GO INFREQUENTLY. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">When you go infrequently, the moments you do have a conversation with your child will carry more weight. He or she will know that you don't "typically" do this and it actually means something to them. Otherwise, it will be "just another time mom wants to say sorry before she messes up again." Don't give them that edge! And honestly, none of us need to be living in a way that causes constant apologies. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Make the moment count. Own what you did. Sincerely apologize for the issue in a way that they know you mean it. Use this time to talk about leadership as well. Children, especially teens, can learn from you how vital it is for authority to lead with a heart of humility. This will also show how you respect them as a person even though you are in charge of them. </span><br />
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<span lang="">"Lord, it's me. Casey. I love You so much. I know we talk a lot but I wanted to write what I am feeling. And I believe others will connect with You as I share my heart. The past six weeks have been life-changing. Thank you for being with us in detailed ways as we have transitioned from being on staff at the church for twenty years. Thank you for the people that have encouraged us and blessed us in notes and gifts. They are sent from You and we don't take them for granted. This has been a divine time with You, Lord. And yet, what is a girl to do when she feels so much?<br />
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I have known my place and purpose my whole life. It was home, school, music and sports growing up. It has been marriage, motherhood, and ministry for some time now. Those things were challenging to me. I had to learn them and work hard for them. There were so many new things to conquer and do. Whether it was communication with Scotty, birthing babies, or leading at church, there was plenty of learning and doing. <br />
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But this time in my life is so strange. So I am seeking You on what to do with it. Our marriage is settled and blessed. My babies are born and growing. Our ministry has changed and there isn't a specific function for me to conquer yet. So what is up? Where is the adreneline? Where is my challenge? What is this? REST? You say, it's called "rest"? How can I stop when the world is in need and I must work! Work! Work!<br />
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Rest. A season of rest. Interesting, Lord. Sounds sinful based on my pattern of doing and thinking for over 30 years. Could this be from You? A period in my life where You literally just want me to do what I know to do and do it well? There is nothing new to chase or figure out? Do you seriously want me to simply rest? This is what Your word says in Ps. 116: 7 "I said to myself, 'relax and rest as God has showered you with blessings'..." but it seems unfamiliar. <br />
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Does this mean I can just open my Bible and enjoy it instead of prepare to teach? Does this mean I can sleep without grinding my teeth from the stress of so many details to not forget? Does this mean I can sit on my back porch swing and not feel like I am wasting time? Does this mean when I pray my mind is clear rather than cloudy from distractions of everything else? Does this mean when I choose a book it doesn't have to be one on how to survive in home, motherhood, and ministry? Does this mean You are okay with this? If so, this is amazing. This is almost too good to be true. And yet, I know this is what you have for me right now. <br />
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All I feel in my spirit these days is to be with You and take care of the things I already have in my life. No drive for more. No seeking things to conquer. No looking for fulfillment in the action and adventure. Just rest. Rest in You. <br />
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This isn't easy for me. But I am here. Let's do it. For many years I know I have obeyed by working hard for all You told me to do. And now I will pour myself into resting. This is Your plan. This is Your will. This is Your way. It isn't wrong. It isn't selfish. It isn't wasting time. This is what you want. You are using me and speaking to me in this. <br />
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Help me to take a deep breath and be with you in a Mary spirit. May I fellowship with You as it was when Jesus pulled away and met with you as part of Your plan. May I sit at Your feet and weep. May I calapse in Your arms as I lay out my heart before You. May I embrace being away from all I have ever known. May I be at peace with less. May I rest for as long as You desire. Your rest is best. <br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> This little sign sits in my laundry room and reminds me to think ahead for what may come. It doesn't say, "Have FEAR and PANIC because a storm is coming!!!!" For this I am grateful as I already have those thoughts as a natural response if I allow my flesh to take over and forget the promises of God. Instead, I quote "For do not fear, for I am with you. Do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10 while I also prepare for what we have been warned lies ahead. </span><br />
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Contact someone outside the affected area to tell them where you will be for the duration of the storm. Business owners should remind employees of your </span></span><a href="https://www.travelers.com/business-insurance/risk-control/protecting-your-business/Docs/Business-Continuity-Risk-Management-58668RMG.aspx"><u><span style="color: blue; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">continuity plans</span></u></a><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">, including information on how they will know if your facility is open for business once the storm has passed. </span><br />
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It is always a good idea to know how to turn off the gas, electricity and water in your home or place of business. </span></span><br />
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Stay tuned to your local television or radio station for disaster-related information. </span></span><br />
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Depending on the type of disaster, you may want to consider having emergency materials on hand, such as plywood, sandbags and waterproof tarps. </span></span><br />
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Grills, patio furniture and flowerpots are common household items that can become airborne in high winds. Do not use grills inside or store propane tanks inside the house or garage. Business owners should also remember to secure outdoor signage, benches and equipment to minimize potential damage. </span></span><br />
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If you have an emergency generator, keep that fueled up as well, and always have spare fuel on hand that is stored in an approved container in a safe location. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Create a survival kit that will sustain you if disaster strikes</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">A copy of your Travelers insurance policy </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">A copy of an inventory of your home's contents </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Again, this is not to create fear or panic but to be aware and ready for the future just as Noah planned even before he saw the rain. We can see this as beneficial again in Proverbs 31:27 says, "She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness." So let's be watchful and hardworking today and trust the Lord to take care of any and every storm we may encounter. </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5214921168353104579.post-65866119457900510612016-12-02T07:00:00.000-08:002016-12-03T05:52:24.437-08:00More Stuff! <div style="text-align: center;">
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<span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Stuff for the closet! Stuff for the toy bin! Stuff for the TV hutch! Stuff the garage! Stuff for the areas...with stuff! As a mother of six children, the last thing I need is more stuff on top of the stuff we have! After all the treats from the school party, costumes from the church performance, clothes and toys from the family-giving, I have felt as if I have a mall in my home entry room. All I can do in December is make a pile in the laundry room and deal with it all after New Years. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Then there is the More Factor. The innocent children in our lives have this inward understanding that every year the gifts should be bigger and better! The bigger you get, the bigger the presents get. And it better be better, mom, so they think. I thought this as a child and I know my children have had these expectations Seriously, my daughter made the comment a couple years ago of her Christmas gifts being more and more each year. "Just think, Mom! By the time I am 13 I will have a car!" No ho, ho,ho here...because truth is, she was right! There was this unsaid pattern we had been creating as a family every year that there were more gifts and more expensive gifts than the year before. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Certainly, Christmas is a wonderful time to purchase and receive presents as we rejoice over the ultimate Gift given to the world. And I love it all! But the reality is that it can easily get out of control and our children can become consumed with consuming. And this can lead to frustration in the minds and the home of the parents. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> <b> 1. Give away as much as you can this month before more comes in the door</b>. Since it's a hectic time, don't even separate it yet into those resale/giveaway/trash piles. Just get a box and throw everything you can get rid of in there. Think in terms of clothes, toys, decor, books, DVDs etc. Then take it to Goodwill or save if you have time to sell or share things after the season. </span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">As you gather each item, you will feel a wave of holly jolly come over you, I guarantee. I typically have each of our children gather ten legitimate things (not their sibling's items or a small piece of a broken toy) to share. For us, that is 60 items out of the way! Merry Christmas to me!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> <b>2. Explain that each child is loved but the gifts are not always going to be more impressive than the year before. </b>Some years may be a step up from the year before but some years may not, and that is okay. Share with them that the goal is to share the love not increase the greed. Just because they are growing up doesn't mean that the gifts are more and more. Some things may be more and some may be less. It can be a trap for them to compare from previous years or even with siblings who gets what and how much is it. </span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">This talk may even need to happen a couple of times as they grow in this new way of thinking. Therefore, t</span></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">he atmosphere, tone and words we use in communicating these steps is for the children is crucial for them to understand and embrace. These changes may be harder for some hearts than others but it's beneficial for all.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Here is glimpse at what we actually say to our children during December, "Hey it's the most wonderful time of the year! Who is ready to celebrate? Decorate? Bake? Shop? Give?! Go light-seeing?! Here is the plan, kids. <i>First, we are going to start by making room for the blessings that are to come! </i>This way, other children can use what we have had and it keeps the house from being overwhelmed with too much stuff. </span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>Secondly, let's keep things in perspective of appreciation for all you will be receiving this year. </i>Each present is given because you are loved. However, every year they will not necessarily be bigger and better, okay? Just because you received a lot last year doesn't mean it will be the same this year or even bigger and better. B</span></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">ut you will be blessed not only by Christmas morning but by the events and other festivities throughout the month! We will enjoy this all to the fullest when we have the right heart of gratitude. Who is ready to start?!" </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><b>3. Choose a family project to bless others.</b> Most families spend time asking, "What do you want for Christmas?" However, one of the questions we emphasize in our home is "What should we do to bless someone else this year?" This question will get everyone thinking outside of themselves. We gather around and chat to hear what is on everyone's heart. Then we choose several smaller giving projects if everyone is asking for something different or we do one big giving project if we feel there is a more pressing larger need. This time will settle in your children's hearts as more and more meaningful through the years. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> So, gather your small and big elves around the fire, pass out marshmallows and share the family's merry way to celebrate! Keep it short and sweet answering all questions at the end, then implement all month long with expectations of less material chaos and fewer greedy hearts. Everyone can still decorate the house, eat delicious treats, go visit the brightest lights, turn up the Christmas tunes, make traditional crafts and do some shopping for others. <i>But most of all, you will be able to <b>enjoy the most wonderful time of the year without everyone wanting more and your home overflowing with stuff.</b></i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Although pageants are much different than when I participated, a flash of memory lane rushed through my body. It was 15 years ago that I was crowned Miss American Teen 1998 in Orlando, FL. It was a dream come true for my 18 yr old world. After months of hard work preparation and competition, God allowed me to win the national title. Yes, I cried. My family cheered. My hometown people celebrated. My school friends went fan crazy. And I spent the next year all going all over the country speaking, helping causes, serving communities, and living it up best I could. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Without boring most of you, all I can say about my pageant experiences was that I had the time of my life. My whole family participated with all the excitement. For us, it was making memories and doing something together. And for me, I learned how to handle myself in public speaking and formal settings. I was challenged in my ability to lead in the community and in my school with grades and participation. My body was held accountable and my mind was sharpened during those days. In addition, I made a ton of friends and was able to share Christ to hundreds of girls. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Now, fast forward to now. As my eyes are glazed over thinking about my time "conquering the world" with a young in-shape body, glamorous clothes, fancy food, high-rise hotels, personal makeup and hair artists, talent shows and fame,<i> I am keenly aware of my current state of being. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> My body has given birth to five children, my clothes are worn out Pj's, my food tonight is animal crackers and yogurt served in a Veggie Tales bowl, my housing arrangement is a low-rise that smells like rotten eggs from the soaking pan days old, my hair hasn't even been washed in four days, I haven't worn a single ounce of makeup for over two weeks, my talent consists of rocking my coughing toddler back to sleep, and I am now famous among needy EGR (extra grace required) teenage girls who are texting me even though we just got home from being together for a week. (Not to mention that I caught a stomach bug and have visited the bathroom more times than I checked the mirror in high school.)<br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Yes, life is different now. But I am writing today with good news! There is a verse Paul wrote in Philippians 4 (MSG) that challenges me. "<i>Actually, I don't have a sense of needing anything personally. I have learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I am just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I have found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am." </i></span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> There is such a strength in being content in all circumstances. Although I had wonderful memories from my pageant days, I can be content in the current stage of life! My joy and satisfaction comes from the Lord not in how outward things are going for me. As I sit here looking and feeling completely different than 15 years ago, I am still full of joy at the place God has me. This doesn't make sense in natural thinking but it's true! As long as you are where God wants you to be doing what He wants you to do then you will be okay! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"> Don't fret friends! Don't look to your past accomplishments and wishful thinking for the "old days". God has a plan for you TODAY in the workplace, the home, the school, the church, the store, on vacation, and anywhere else you find yourself! You may be have different circumstances but God is with you! Because of the joy that can only come by God's grace, I am loving my life and you can too! There is no need to wait for things to "be like they used to be" so we can be happy again. Life changes. Things happen. We have a promise from the Lord that He is with us and will give us all we need to face life as it is, <i>today! </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> So, I don't know about you but I am embracing my place in the world I now live in. I am not 18 and I am not a pageant girl. But what I am is a woman who is content is all cirmcumstances at all times as the Lord gives me strength. I praise Him for the past, lean on Him in the present and look with anticipation for the future! And my prayer is that you will too. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: large;">P.S. Congrats to Miss USA Erin Brady from Connecticut...let's do coffee in 15 yrs.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><span style="line-height: 115%;"> It </span><span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">came on suddenly. Just ten days after my wedding reality hit: My husband wanted
to eat every day AND he thought I would be providing the food! Me. Not his
mama. Not the school cafeteria. Not the fast food places. The non-cooking girl
who was so busy doing other things that she never learned how to cook is
supposed to provide meals. The flash of shock was soon sobered when I realized
that I was hungry too.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><span style="line-height: 115%;"> </span><span style="line-height: 115%;">And to add to the situation, we started
having children before I truly conquered cooking so then I was dealing with not
only what to make but also how to avoid chaos at the table. I had idealistic
images in my mind of happy, thankful children gathered peacefully around the
table while their parents shared life insights for 30 minutes. But all I saw in
front of me were wriggly, talkative, complaining, fast-eating little people
that made big messes and weren’t ready for meaningful conversation. This is not
what I had envisioned with delicious meals and well-mannered children.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><span style="line-height: 115%;"> </span><span style="line-height: 115%;">So, I decided to do what any sensible
woman would do...I cried a lot then I chose to conquer this thing called
mealtime. In my journey to fight hunger and attain happiness in the home, there
are two chicken nuggets of insight I want to pass on for those who need them:</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><i><span lang="EN" style="line-height: 115%;"><b>1. Make
a Simple Meal Plan with 10 Dinner Recipes.</b> </span></i><span lang="EN" style="line-height: 115%;">All you have to do is learn ten dinner meals to
the best of your ability and use them over two weeks. Choose five categories
and two meals for each category. For example, two meals that are American, two
meals that are Italian, two meals that are Mexican, two meals that are
crockpot, and two meals that are hearty soup/salad/bread. Voila. These will
carry you for five nights a week for two weeks. The other two nights a week are
for pizza, dates, or carryout. (And, of course, the ever-rewarding backup of “cereal
night” is a lifesaver if you get in a pinch.) <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Pick whatever your heart desires! Choose
according to </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;">your family's needs and time. Go online. Look at cooking </span></div>
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Ask friends. Just focus on learning 10 main meals. Once you have this down, you
are set. No need to think of 365 dinner plans. Just rotate 10. And when life
changes and you are in another season with more time, you can add to your list.
But for now, there is a set rotating plan with delicious food you made five
nights a week.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And what about breakfast, lunch, and
snacks? These are easier to figure out. You can rotate those every week. For instance,
every Monday for us is oatmeal and boiled eggs for breakfast. Cream cheese/jam
wraps are for lunch with carrots and ranch, chips and applesauce. And snack is
a granola bar. The same goes on for the other days of the week. Breakfast,
lunch and snack are the same on certain days every week while dinner rotates
every two weeks. After years of this plan, nobody has become bored and I can
rest assured breakfast, lunch and dinner are covered! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="line-height: 115%;"><b>2. Make Mealtime a Priority</b></span></i><span lang="EN" style="line-height: 115%;"><b>.</b> Mealtime is primetime! One
of my favorite poems is by family activist Nancy Campbell that implores, “Where
can you communicate while you eat? Where can you enjoy real fellowship sweet?
Where can you laugh with friends who are neat? At the table…Where can your
children learn to sit still? Acquire eating habits that won’t make them ill? Be
taught good manners of which some have nil? At the table…” All this and more
unfolds at the table together. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Once mealtime was determined to be an
integral part of my family, the manners and methods followed. If there is
school, work, or extra-curricular activities during dinner then we make plans
for other meals such as lunch or breakfast together. At the very least, we look
at the weekly calendar and find at least 3 mealtimes we are all together. It
literally took our family a few years to conquer table time. But the optimistic
side to that is while there isn’t perfection, we do enjoy meals now. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;">Some
practical things we do to bring peace around the plates are as follows:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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lighting, place settings, and music<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-pagination: none;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;">Wait to eat until all have joined the table
then give genuine thanks for the food<o:p></o:p></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-pagination: none;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;">Have adults make their plates first then
have the older kids make the younger kids’ plates<o:p></o:p></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-pagination: none;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;">Consider having a minute or two of the
silent game so everyone can calm down and prepare to eat peacefully <o:p></o:p></span></li>
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chat and the kids to listen while they eat<o:p></o:p></span></li>
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lecture or bring up conflict (that would make anyone sick!) <o:p></o:p></span></li>
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have everyone listen to the answers<o:p></o:p></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-pagination: none;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;">Plan to have everyone stay at the table at
least 20 minutes (although there are times I allow the toddler or baby to
color or play so the rest can finish the meal). <o:p></o:p></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-pagination: none;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 115%;">Make sure the seats are comfortable for
little ones. This helps cut back on the wriggles. <o:p></o:p></span></li>
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dinner has warded off hunger and added happiness to the buffet of life in the
Gibbons home. So if you crave the same
in your house, just take it one bite, or rather, <i>one night at a time</i> and soon you will be satisfied!</span></span><span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: small;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5214921168353104579.post-35366112405882685172016-08-17T07:30:00.000-07:002019-06-19T19:02:09.715-07:00The First Five Minutes<span lang=""><span lang=""> </span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">I admit...I am a recovering grumpy morning mom. By the grace of God I have changed over the years. And the changes I have made tremendously influenced how happy I am as well as how happy my children are in the morning. </span></span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> The first thing I do for myself as soon as I wake up is to immediately pray "I love you God! I give you this day. Help me Lord. Strengthen me. This day is Yours..." This is in the first Nano-second or else I automatically wake up on the wrong side every single day. This prayer has been a game-changer for me and only takes about five minutes of my waking time to overcome my evil sin nature that appears every morning.</span></span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> The other thing that has changed as I have grown as a mother is how I greet my children in the first five minutes. In the past when they woke up I would say after a brief hug, "Hello baby! I need you to get dressed" or "Goodmorning! Oh wow, your hair is crazy" or "Um...its not time to get up yet!" or "Yuck, your diaper is stinky" while not even look at them or truly connecting. But I have learned that this is a prime time to start their day off right. I was missing an influential opportunity.</span></span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> So, as each one wakes up or enters the room, I stop to make a heart connection. It could be by hugging them, wrapping them in a blanket, rubbing their back, speaking enouraging words about the day, making eye contact, listening to their dreams from the night, or offering help. Even if we are in a hurry, these few moments have the power to set the day straight. </span></span></span><br />
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<span lang=""><span lang=""><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> These "First Five" minutes are powerful either for the good or for the bad. It is up to you and to me how we start the day and how we lead our children to their start off their day. As a recovering grumpy morning mom, I can honestly say these two changes have transformed me into one happy mama with five happy children. </span></span></span><br />
<span lang=""><span lang="" style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: large;"></span></span><br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5214921168353104579.post-75759147575667379452016-08-01T08:57:00.000-07:002016-08-02T17:25:12.296-07:00Trying to Train! <span style="background-color: rgba(255 , 255 , 255 , 0); font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"> </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255 , 255 , 255 , 0); font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"> All I am trying to do is "train up a child in the way she should go". But that is not always easy! This video clip is exactly what happened yesterday. I was feeling frustrated so I decided to video it exactly the way it was two minutes previously...and the phone even rang without prompting...which is part of our normal life too! Ugh. So many distractions. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255 , 255 , 255 , 0); font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"> Honestly, I started singing because it was either sing or let out an exasperated sigh. So, I just made up a song to get their attention. Do you ever feel frustrated with your children when all you are trying to do it is the right thing?! I am sure this is the case for mothers everywhere! Don't give up friends! Keep teaching even when it's tough! I am preaching this to myself too!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255 , 255 , 255 , 0); font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"> I am reminded of the verse in Galations 6:9-10 (MSG) "So let's not allow ourselves to get fatigued doing good. At the right time we will harvest a good crop if we don't give up or quit. Right now, therefore, every time we get the chance, let us work for the benefit of all, starting with the people closest to us in the community of faith." Totally for us, friends. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255 , 255 , 255 , 0); font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"> We must not give up with planting the seeds in the hearts of our children so we can gather a harvest. I can remember a friend of mine who has raised eight children sharing with me that I am in the years of plowing the fields. (I am picturing myself completely digging with a shovel, sweating profusely in the blazing sun with no water as a comparison to what I feel at times emotionally, physically, mentally as a mama!). But she went on to say that I will in time see the growth coming up and will be richly blessed with a lifelong harvest which would be my children loving the Lord! I have never forgotten those words. And so I plow. And you must too. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> No matter what distractions or frustrations we may feel when leading our children, we must keep going. Even better is that our strength, patience, and perhaps at times a fun-loving response will come from the Lord who created our children and chose us to mother them. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255 , 255 , 255 , 0); font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"> After the song we did move on with still and quiet children ready to actually learn. Little seeds are already sprouting from my little crop!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> I use books/stories, re-enactment fun play, dance, pictures, DVD clips, and any creative way I can implement. However,<em> the creative part is minimal</em> because they lose sight sometimes of the point and we walk away not sure what we just learned. But DO make it an enjoyable time with lots of love and snuggles as you learn!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Also, it will take some loving discipline to remind them to be still and pay attention. It seems like every distraction happens during this time but I am determined that this time with my girls is the CORE of all I do. This time HAS to happen most days of the week. (We do about 4 days). <em>It is like a golden treasure in my heart! </em></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"> There is so much to teach and such a small window of time before they are off into life on their own. But just think all the golden nuggets you would have placed in the heart of your children for them to have for years to come! What a blessed mother you will be watching them live it out by God's grace. </span></span><br />
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<a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5214921168353104579" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">August - Temptation, Thought Life, Emotions (how to handle these)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">December - Sacrificial Giving and Attributes of God (use some basic thoughts from the resource list at <a href="http://www.josh.org/video-2/attributes-of-god/"><span class="s2">http://www.josh.org/video-2/attributes-of-god/</span></a>)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Also, if you want to go even further, here is a link for some basic character qualities that all children can learn. I simply use this list to put in the kitchen to reference when a child does one of the traits. It helps them learn what they mean and strive to do them. <a href="http://www.duggarfamilyblog.com/2012/04/teaching-character-duggar-way.html">http://www.duggarfamilyblog.com/2012/04/teaching-character-duggar-way.html</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"> Feel free to change up the theme of the month based on what your family needs during that time or for a theme perhaps your church is using. The goal is to have open discussion and training with those precious hearts God has given you. Make time for it! Whatever and whenever it can be, do it while you still have them with you. Every minute makes a difference! </span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', serif;">And I hold to this verse in </span><b style="font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', serif;"><i>3 John 1:4 "I have no greater joy than to know my children are walking in the truth."</i></b></span><br />
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children home all day" blues? Having a plan is imperative! I don’t know
about your family but when we are home without our typical school schedule or a
plan, our family turn into lazy, mindless, visionless, whiny, messy, bored,
complaining, tv-overloaded people who ask for food all day. It isn't pretty. </span></div>
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overwhelming if you aren't in a routine of children being home more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But the summer doesn't have to be a bummer! I
bring you good news! Happiness can be found! All you have to do is think
through how you want the summer to look then make a plan.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">I
guarantee that everyone enjoys the day more when it isn’t aimless. </b></span></span></div>
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is what our days look like <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">when we are
home.</i> <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">If we are out part of the day
then we just pick right back up when we get home</i>. This is simply our
personal example. </span></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Adjust for what you need in your situation since some of you
may have to go work or have other circumstances. </span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> </span></div>
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clean kitchen, brush teeth, make beds, get dressed, do hair etc.</b> Having the
basics covered allows everyone to be ready for whatever may come for the day!
And I feel relief knowing everyone is fed, kitchen is clean, beds are made, and
everyone is presentable and yet the kids enjoyed seeing a show when they woke
up. Since it’s more relaxed in the summer the thought would be that everyone is
ready for the day by 9:30. </span></span></div>
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things children may not have time for during the school year. Gardening,
shopping, working out, cleaning, baking, gift-making, visiting friends or running
errands are some ideas to use during these couple of hours. Toddlers can do
different activities such as art table, room toys, sibling play, video, snack
or join you if it works. </span></span></div>
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kitchen job such as sweep floors, clean off and wipe counters, pull out chairs,
and help mom with dishes. A little tip during meal time is to play a tape (or
CD/IPOD/Phone)and listen to stories. We use older story tapes like GT and the
Halo Express, Adventures in Odessy, Dan and Louie etc. with a tape player from
Wal-Mart which is a novelty to them. Once eating and cleaning is finished, everyone
can do whatever they like for a bit. </span></span></div>
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kid should read books but they don’t unless I read it with them” books. We are
currently on Pilgrims Progress kid version. Reading together makes my mama
heart happy since I can’t seem to find time for as much reading together during
the school year. May also play more or have computer/electronics time for everyone.)</span></span></div>
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Chocolate</b> This time is our Bible time with a theme every month. We sit on a
comfy blanket and eat chocolate while talking about scripture and life. It’s my
favorite time with the children because it’s all about their heart and walk
with the Lord. Summer is a fabulous time to instill values and character while
the kids aren’t distracted by school and extra-curricular activities. (Angel
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This is my quiet time to do whatever I need to do! Woohoo. And yes, I do
sometimes take naps…even when I am not pregnant. Bria and Allison quiet time on
beds, Candice and Kelly have personal reading (little ones nap).This time gives everyone a breather from the playing and being together
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food boost while watching a PBS show then clean bedrooms. This is a daily job to keep rooms from being overwhelming.
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out car, vacuum, dust, and bath rooms, depending on house needs and day of the
week. And it’s a perfect time to teach how to clean if a child needs some
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there has been some order to the day, this play time is fresh and they play better
together when free time comes. </span></span></div>
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has caused our summers to be enjoyable on the days we are home because the kids
are ready for the day, learning new things, keeping the house clean and yet we
still have plenty of time for rest and playing. </span></span></span><br />
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the same as your family is productive while being refreshed without any summer motherhood
blues!</span></span> </span></div>
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ground with my face in my open Bible as I wept. I had a 3 month old and had
just found out I was pregnant again. In the midst of being a first-time mom, I
was dealing with strong side-effects from medications because of a fracture that occurred in labor, I had been
through a follow-up surgery and was experiencing post-partum depression. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Finding out I was pregnant was not good news.
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">The Lord asked me in that moment if I trusted Him. He said,
“If you will give me your womb, I will give you the grace you need to have
every baby I call you to have.” In gut-wrenching searching of the heart, I surrendered to the Lord His plans for our family. I wholeheartedly, tearfully answered Him, “I trust You and I give you my womb.” And He has given undeniable grace. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">I went from not wanting more than one baby to being open to
all God had for me. After six births and two miscarriages, today with this surgery, I will once again trust Him with my womb. In the next hour, I will be having a hysterectomy to remove a grapefruit-sized fibroid tumor that is inside my uterus. Then, I will have an additional internal repair surgery from some complications that were caused to the surrounding organs. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">I trust the Lord that my
time to give birth is over. I am reminded of Job in the Bible and his trust of
God. He says, “The Lord gives and the Lord takes away.” My window of
opportunity to obey a specific call of God was only for a season. I am so
thankful I obeyed Him without delay. My life is
more blessed than I could have planned on my own. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><i>How about you? Is there any area of your life that God has
called you to obey, right now, for this time? If so, don’t miss it.</i> His call to
have you obey in a specific area is something He has given you. He will give
you this time and there will be a time He will take it away. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">I</span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">f you follow Him,
right now, with full surrender then you will experience more blessings than you
can imagine. If you are
living in obedience, you will experience His gifts for you at this time in your life before that season changes. More than anything, you can trust Him! </span><br />
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